911
This morning, I ran the girls to school as usual. Usual means late and leaving Soren who doesn't like to come. It is only 8 blocks to the school and I leave the house locked up, so I don't worry about him in the 7 minutes it takes to get there and back. When I returned today, I found Soren crying with the phone in his hand. He gives the phone to me, so I say Hello.
The voice on the other end is a 911 operator who Soren called to say he was home alone and didn't know where his mom was! She told me an officer was on his way to my house to make sure things were alright and sure enough, not two minutes later, there was a heavy knock on my front door. TWO officers parked in front of my house and came in to see that things were okay. They took my full name and date of birth and asked to see Soren.
I keep flipping from sympathy for my poor little boy who felt neglected and alone to anger and embarrassment that Soren had a total meltdown in what seemed to be a normal situation that then had to be explained to a police officer! I want to think this is the last hoorah of a really lousy week, but seeing how it is Monday- I think it is more likely the start to another one! I guess I'll go start the laundry while I wait for social services to call!
The voice on the other end is a 911 operator who Soren called to say he was home alone and didn't know where his mom was! She told me an officer was on his way to my house to make sure things were alright and sure enough, not two minutes later, there was a heavy knock on my front door. TWO officers parked in front of my house and came in to see that things were okay. They took my full name and date of birth and asked to see Soren.
I keep flipping from sympathy for my poor little boy who felt neglected and alone to anger and embarrassment that Soren had a total meltdown in what seemed to be a normal situation that then had to be explained to a police officer! I want to think this is the last hoorah of a really lousy week, but seeing how it is Monday- I think it is more likely the start to another one! I guess I'll go start the laundry while I wait for social services to call!
8 Comments:
Unbelievable. That is so sad and so maddening, all at the same time! I cannot believe he called 911! Were the officers nice about it? Were they understanding or act like you were a negligent mother? That seems like the ultimate last thing on earth that you needed today...
It reminds me of when Lucas was a baby -- I had taken the boys to Costco and when we got back in the car I realized that I had forgotten to drop off my film. I dashed over and dropped it in the drop box, leaving the boys in the locked car. In that brief time, a woman had seen them left alone and called the police! I got pulled over on the way home, got a citation and a court date. I believe it was the day before my birthday too. I don't think I ever felt worse about being a mother.
That sucks Jenn. Why did he panic if you do that all the time? Was he asleep when you left or something? I'd be mad/sad too, it's like a betrayal or something. They need school buses to pick your s up, then you wouldn't have to go through this. What a pain. I sincerely hope this doesn't mean you're starting a new week badly. Chant to yourself all day "This will be a good week, this will be a good week." As always, call to vent, ask for help, or for child care.
Oh goodness! That sucks! I'm sure it will be funny in a few days, but today that is just maddening. There is one thing you can take from this... At least Soren knows who to call if there is really trouble. I hope he never has to make that call again.
Sorry for laughing at your expense...I also feel a little sick to my stomach when I turn it around and it happened to me! I'm glad everything turned out ok and for now you are still in the free world... How do kids always seem to be able to speak articulately to get us in trouble (wrong words or choppy sentences never plague them then!)
I would seriously be freaking out! I wonder what got into him? I'm sure you'll not miss the opportunity next time he wants to stay home to remind him of his actions. And deservedly so. Seriously, if you need any help, let me know. My days are pretty empty this week, so if you need anything. . .I've been meaning to ask Emily over to play for a while now, so I would be happy to take you kids.
I'm extremely sorry to laugh at your troubles, but I can't help but find this funny! I'm sure I wouldn't find it at all funny if it had happened to me instead, but since it didn't, I will allow myself a bit of a chuckle at your expense. Hey, give me a break. I need a good laugh!
"If it was going to be easy to raise kids, it never would've started with something called 'labor'."
You're not a real mother until someone has called CPS on you. Looks like you passed a very painful test.
Now there's nowhere to go but up!
Hugs.
My heart goes out to you!
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